How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 03:19
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Is it okay or problematic to be both Black and gay in society in the 21st century?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What is it like to be a Christian in Iran?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Can you tell me a depressing story?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
That's it for today.
Why do almost all vertebrates have tails, but not apes and frogs?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What have I done wrong? How can I start over?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Making more friends is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Why do men think I’m easy just by looking at me?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Do you like wearing short skirts?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Can a mother forget her child after she puts him or her up for adoption?
Ask yourself:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Why do I get spun and then want big fat cocks to suck?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Does not procrastinate.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Have you experimented with bestiality?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Procrastinates a lot.
Are there many people here who suffer from schizophrenia?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
What I need from you?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.